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First let me address the flaggers. Please do not flag this ad. If you believe that something I’ve written is offensive or inappropriate, please send me your comments (with the subject of “Edit”). I will then rewrite my ad to make it more acceptable. Anonymous flagging of ads that people have put legitimate thought into will just send away all but the Spammers. Isn’t it bad enough that the majority of Craiglslist personal ads already are fake? To clarify what I seek, I am looking for something long-term, not a casual encounter, though I wouldn’t tell a woman who doesn’t have long to live that she doesn’t deserve a quality relationship for the time she has remaining. I value quality over quantity. A mutually enjoyable relationship that doesn’t last forever is more greatly appreciated by me than a tolerable relationship that does last forever. I don’t believe that a woman is property to be owned by a man. I wish for the woman who chooses to be with me does so out of desire, not obligation.
When we truly love, cherishing the moments we’ve shared is more important than holding onto what can no longer be. We don’t beg a dying person to linger, but thank him or her for all the wonderful moments that he or she has given us to treasure.
True love never ends; it nurtures us within forever and, eventually, is passed on to all those whose lives we touch.
“Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.” ~ by Khalil Gibran ~
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Maybe you are a lot like me, disillusioned by what you have encountered in your search or finding that there is something about you or your lifestyle that limits the interest of potential partners, yet you miss the ability to share closeness with someone. Tender touch is very important to humans and many other animals. It is unhealthy for us to deny ourselves contact just because we haven’t found perfection. Touch soothes us and comforts us and extends our lives. It has been years since I’ve felt that soothing touch, and I wish to fill that void.
I’m not looking for sexual conquests. Intercourse just for the sake of intercourse leaves me with an empty feeling. I have no interest in hopping from bed to bed. I need to feel a connection with a woman before taking that step, and have no interest in the numbers game. I’d just like to find a woman who would enjoy hugging and gentle, sensual kissing without complicating anyone’s life. Maybe your life is too complicated for a relationship, or maybe you just haven’t found that right person. Wouldn’t it be nice to have a special friend with whom you can safely share some closeness once or twice a week? Remember how nice it felt to make out after a date when you were a teen? Would you like to relive that non-pressure caring? I’d like to establish something that would continue as long as it remains a positive experience for both of us. I’m not looking to hold you back or limit you or own you.
I place few limitations on what I am seeking, though I admit that the weight issue is a problem for many, due to our society viewing overweight as the norm. Unlike some women who seek someone to provide them with a lifestyle they feel they deserve yet cannot afford, I seek no more than I bring to the relationship. I’m not concerned about your age, education, how much money you have, your beliefs (as long as you show the same respect to others of differing beliefs that you wish for them to show you), height or the color, size or shape of any of your physical attributes. I don’t discriminate against people who are physically challenged. Whether a wheel chair provides you with mobility or you are bald due to chemotherapy, as long as you take care of yourself and care about more than just yourself, you deserve tenderness as much as anyone else. I would like us to both be easy-going, recreational drug-/tobacco-/contagious disease-free, sensitive, caring, respectful, responsible and playful. I like being with a woman who enjoys her femininity, yet isn’t wrapped up in artificially enhanced beauty. I’ve known tomboys who were more feminine than the superficial ones who spend all their time on their hair, nails and makeup. Communication is nice, as I’m not into head games or leaving people in the dark, yet talkative people can be draining after a while. Introversion is a plus, as far as I’m concerned. I’m into subtleties and don’t choose to be overwhelmed by any aspect of you. I find excess to be a turn-off for me, so I’d like for you to be proportionally no larger than me. I’m not just saying shorter or lighter. A good way to determine the proportion is by using one’s body mass index (BMI). Search “BMI calculator” using your Internet browser for an easy calculation of your BMI. I must admit that size is an issue for me, preferring small to large. Since fat takes up 18% more space than muscle, I’d be OK with you having a BMI up to my 21.7, if your weight is from muscle, but would prefer that it be less if it isn’t. I’d also like this to be convenient for both of us, so it would be easier if you lived or worked in the San Fernando, Santa Clarita or Antelope Valleys. I have no interest in being a secret from anyone’s significant other, and I’m not interested in someone who is into multiple partners, yet I am discreet. I’ll respect any guidelines you establish. As long as no one is hurt, we’ll be able to enjoy sharing special time together.
I am an easy-going, divorced, educated professional, a young-looking, healthy and fit 60-year-old Caucasian male, 6’, 160#, 33” waist, with a full head of naturally brown hair and hazel eyes. I live a simple life on my farm in the country, so that is a limiting factor for most women seeking a partner. I also can’t afford the travel or materialism that many women seek, though I am a good friend and very handy and helpful.
Maintaining my business, farm and doing my volunteer work takes up time. I’d truly love a special friend who values and appreciates what I have to offer, without manipulating to get more. I can guaranty that you’ll get my total undivided attention when I do share time with you. If you’d like a special friend to talk with, share with, relax with and unwind in each other’s arms, without pressure, complications or obligation, take the time and write to me, especially if you enjoy slow, sensual kissing. I promise a response to any woman who writes a legitimate reply to this ad and meets the qualifications I have stated. Put “My BMI is (fill in the number)” as the subject of your response and then tell me what attracted you to this ad, so I know that your response isn’t Spam. I'll report all other emails as Spam, without reading them. I look forward to our stress melting away as we entwine in each other’s arms.
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Tags: SWM Seeking Slender Woman Who Enjoys Kissing - 60 (AV-SCV-SFV)
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